“How was your day?”
“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”
“How are you?”
“I hope you’re feeling better”
“Have a good day today!”
“I miss you”
“Can you come over?”
“Can I come over?”
“Can I see you?”
“Can I call you?”
“Want something to drink?”
“Watch your step”
“Let’s watch a movie”
“What are you up to?”
“How is your day so far?”
“It will be okay”
“I’m here for you”
“Do you need anything?”
“Are you hungry?”
“I just wanted to hear your voice”
“You just made my day”
You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think.
this is so important. we so often feel that no one loves us or cares about us just bc they arent telling us that they do every single day.. but just checking in and showing compassion and care means that you ARE deeply loved. don’t let your demons convince you otherwise.
The 2013 gave me thousands of wonderful memories and life lessons to remember. The first day of the 2013, I spent it with Calin, my dear friend, in Basel. We were waiting for the fireworks from the Rhein River for at least 30 min in the cold, thank god it was the most fantastic thing I’ve ever seen.
January, the moment I felt so into my front office job. It was really amazing job, with amazing co-worker and managers. Well yeah, it goes so well until I gain 5 kg weight. My housemates were so cool also, they cooked and fed me so damn well (that’s the reason). We celebrated the chinese new year by baking a whole duck and ate it until our stomach exploded.
On the other hand, my travel plan always came true this year. I went back to Karlsruhe and Bühl Baden to see my pretty friend and her damn cute son! Following with my Netherlands trip to enjoy indonesian dishes at indonesian food festival in den hag, and yeah I met a lot of high-school friend there..whoaa.
Holiday over! I was sick for a week but i was happy.
April suddenly came, where the work nightmares came! The Basel World…I did not sleep well for a whole week, thinking and wondering if I did something wrong. I check in and out the VVVVVIP guests from the entire world, serving the best quality of my service skills but you know sometimes it’s not enough. I have to count at least 6,000 CHF cash everyday and a lot of report and money calculation that made my head blew up!
May was good..I had a good life, good nutrition, good fashion, good family and friends, and everything seems so balance to me. The sun is out (sometimes), my tulips bloomed (well somebody stole it in the end), and ticket to home had been bought (surprise).
The funniest thing about this month was the party by HTMi Students in my apartment, that creates so many annoying noises that made the neighbours called polices..so yeah my name got recorded (shit).
June was another work nightmares, even though it was my last month at work. The Art Basel..dude, there are so many strange people here, omg..
June..yeah it’s home..The bad news, my grandpa passed away when I’m on the way home. I just arrived in Doha when my brother told me this. My grandpa asked my grandma about me 2 min before he passed away, he was happy that I’m home and he wanted to see me..Well, I hope he had another 10 hours.
Home is where everyone is there. My best friend had a damn huge relationship problems. She came to my house often and drank all my alcohol stock and as well my tissues. I love her still.
July..I finally hugged and kissed him again. it seems like a twisted story but it happened. Shawn and I started to talk again since June, long story but short, we came back to Switzerland on the same morning..
August, fuck i’m sick again..working my ass off on my Manager in Training program, well I kinda love it in the beginning, even it made me lost 5 kg in the beginning of semester.. I used to love the team.
September, October, November passed like that. I spent my time mostly at work or in zurich. My relationship has its stability and future, my future looks quite well and in order (i mean there wont be any emergency changes), but my team was losing their spirit.
December..finally. I am so happy it came. And fuck, I was sick again. THe worst one! I’ve got virus infection that made me rest on my bed for a week, hardly to eat and drink. I lost another 3 kg. In total, this year I gained weight 5 kg in the first months, but I lost 8 kg in the end which ended this year in 47 kg..I spent my christmas on my bed alone, sadly. But I knew I have the great christmas present ever in my life..
My new year eve? hmm..I’m still here, on my bed. I spent my new year eve with strangers (again), and it was really good honestly. Wishing people happy new year as they wish you the same, enjoying the champagne and “prost” to everybody. It’s a warm moments..a good moment to celebrate the new year.
So, I wish you all happy new year! All the best for the new chapter of the year, may all bless come to you, your friends, and family.
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